Woman, look how far we have NOT come!
Can you believe that despite the fact that women are independent having careers and are not bound by the choices that parents make, like choosing a man, or getting beyond being housewife, nurse or teacher to become astronauts, engineers, doctors and being successful to boot, we are still carried down by people, mostly other women who can do nothing else but be housewives and mothers and a few men who are barely literate if at all and are limited to what they can hear and see because they cannot read, whether we can cook and take care of the house as well as they (or their significant other) can.
The best one of all is whether or not a woman was a virgin bride!
The definition of virgin is a woman who has not had sexual intercourse; a chaste or inexperienced woman, to state a few.
This means that prior to the wedding night, the virgin bride would not have engaged in any activity that was sexual in nature.
It doesn’t say that a virgin-bride is a woman who marries the first man with whom she engaged in sexual activity, hence, there would be failure, perhaps all round, with that particular litmus test.
Quit passing off yourselves as virgin brides if you are in that category especially if you were a minor when you got married.
What the hell else could you have been at sixteen except a virgin?
Something else to contemplate; in all likelihood at sixteen it is probable that you were engaged in sexual activities prior to that and would most likely have been regarded as a rape victim considering you were not legally able to give consent. Having sex under age sixteen is statutory rape, especially with an older dude who should have known better.
We all try to justify the wrong things we do so here is props to women who were not virgin brides but who waited to have sex after they had reached the age of majority, because we were virgins longer.
How is that for a celebration?
And we completed school, entered the work force and were independent enough to take care of ourselves and our children, possibly without the help of a man.
I am by no way looking down on women who stay at home and take care of their children because that is hard 24/7/365 work! But be satisfied in and with the life you chose and stop dragging down other women because you think they cannot cook and clean as well as you do! That is all you do so you ought to be better at it!
Notwithstanding, there are many fabulous women who managed to stay a virgin after the age of majority and beyond who can clean and cook with the best of them and have carved out fabulous careers and businesses only because it is the nature of women to nurture and most of us will try to do it all!
And for those men who involve themselves in this virginity issue. You need only concern yourself with your woman. Nobody else’s virginity is your ‘poke affair’ especially the fact that you have quite the reputation.
And that’s another story!